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strangers say that family is the most important thing in life. And I fully agree with this. But let's try to figure out what this word means by itself. First of all, the family is the Foundation that gives the child all the necessary human qualities, educates kindness and responsiveness. Thanks to the family, a person becomes who he is now. The family is the only structure of society where people really need each other. Nothing can replace a family, no kindergarten, no school, or anything else. It is in the family that you are really dear and the family will do anything to make you feel happy.
My family consists of 3 people: my father, mother and me. My dad is very kind, but sometimes he can be strict, but that doesn't stop me from loving him. Dad is the head of our family and All the hard work around the house rests on him. There is no task that dad can't handle. He is strong and brave, often likes to joke, always helps if something does not work out, will prompt the right decision. I consider him a role model. I value my dear mother as much as my father. This is the person who will support me in any difficult situation, will judge and understand. I have no secrets from her, because I trust her completely and I know that her advice will always help. And my mother knows how to cook very well, there is no holiday without her delicious dishes. In warm weather, my father and mother and I go to the forest for a picnic, fish and play football or volleyball.
In my opinion, I have a very good, kind and cheerful family, in which there is mutual understanding, and, most importantly, a manifestation of kindness and care. And in my opinion, each member should contribute to the happiness of the family. After all, having a good family in our time is a gift of fate. You need to appreciate what you have, because it's easier to lose than to find again.
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In my essay, I would not like to go into too much detail about how important family is to a person. It is a great value. It saves you from loneliness, gives you love and intimacy. For a child, this should be a reliable environment where they are taught to learn about the world, where they are taken care of, where they will always be helped. For an adult, it's the same.
It's good to know that there are people who love you, no matter what you are. And we are always ready to support you. These people are parents, children, siblings, grandparents.
I am more interested in the question: why are some people unhappy in the family? Why do marriages break up? Why do adult children forget about their parents or, on the contrary, parents treat their babies poorly? We see many examples of this around. There is even a social term: "dysfunctional family". And why do people often quarrel even in seemingly happy families?
Some people even say: the relatives are tormented, nothing can be done in their own way. And you don't have to get married or get married at all.
In search of an answer, I opened the encyclopedia to find out what definition is given to the family in society. Family? — a small group based on marriage or consanguinity, whose members are connected by common life, mutual assistance, moral and legal responsibility. That's it, you don't have to read any more. There should be mutual assistance in the family. And not so that one person helps everyone, while others "carry water" on it. If there is no mutual assistance, then there is no family at all, even if people are relatives.
But if there is a family, what should it be? Of course, the best family – dad, mom, children, grandparents. It is probably not for nothing that such a friendly family is considered ideal in Russia. The father is the head of the family, the mother is the Keeper of the family hearth, grandparents do not get bored alone, children have someone to communicate with.
But if such a family for some reason did not develop, then you can not consider any other incomplete. For example, there is a mother and child. Or grandparents and their grandchildren. Or a single father with children. Or just husband and wife. In such a family, although it is considered incomplete by society, there may be more love than in a traditional one.
The main thing is not to lock yourself in your family. A person lives not only in it, but in the big world and in a big society. If someone thinks that he will be "good" only for his family, and no more friends, but all enemies, then soon his family will begin to get into trouble.
Why is it difficult for a person in the family? I found the answer. Because people can be selfish. They are sometimes considered to be close to their property. They demand submission from their relatives, constant support, forgetting that everyone invests equal shares of love and understanding in a real family.